Parents realize there is no playbook and a parenting style evolves from many factors. We like to look for information. We like to get different perspectives. But we don’t agonize. We have instincts about what we like and what we don’t. Parent of 1 As the kids have gotten older I look at parenting websites less. The problems are bigger but less everyday. Parent of 2 Any book that says How to Make your Child xyz is garbage because if it were true everyone would be doing it already. Parent of 4 I think as a parent people think you've arrived and you're fully developed but parents are constantly thrown into circumstances that force us to grow. Parent of 3, Grandparent of 4 Next Insight